While it is
still viewed as somewhat exotic by many people in society, anal sex is by no
means uncommon: a study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that 40% of
women between the ages of 20 and 24 had tried anal sex at least once, as had
11% of men in that age range (as a "bottom"). Performing as a
"top" in an anal sex situation (despite the possibility of a sore
penis resulting) has an appeal for far more men, and so it's no wonder that
this once-scorned form of sexual engagement is increasingly popular. However,
to ensure safety for both partners and good penis health for the men, there are
several safety tips to remember.
Have "the discussion."
It's always
important to know a partner's sexual history before engaging in any form of
sexual contact, but it's especially important with anal sex, and most
especially for the partner that is on the receiving end. Why? There is always a
risk, particularly if the rectum in question is unused to having objects inserted
into it, that there will be some abrasions and bleeding; this can supply a more
direct route for the transmission of any STIs.
It goes without
saying, of course, that beyond this discussion is a separate one: that which
expresses the man's interest in anal sex. A man should never engage in this act
without first obtaining willful consent from his partner.
Always wear a condom.
Using an
appropriate condom is crucial when engaging in anal sexual activities. True,
there's no possibility of impregnation, but as mentioned above, STIs can still
easily be transmitted through anal intercourse.
Lubricate to the max.
Lubrication is
always important in sex, but never more so than in an anal encounter. Unlike
vaginal sex, there is no natural lubricant at work here. Without a good
water-based lubricant, the chance of extreme pain is very high; it also greatly
increases the chance of cuts and abrasions, which will provide greater pain
after intercourse as well.
Don't just plunge in.
This is even
truer when dealing with a partner who has little or no experience with anal
insertions. Before maneuvering his mammoth manhood into his partner's rectum, a
man should lubricate and insert his finger to prepare the way. If there are
some appropriate sex toys, he may also work with these before inserting his
penis. (It may be necessary to try these initial insertions on several occasions
over several nights to build up to the actual insertion of the penis.) And the
man must at all times be gentle and pay attention to the cues he is receiving
from his partner.
Try different positions.
Both during the
"preparation" stages with the finger and sex toys and during actual
penis-to-anus engagement, the couple should experiment with different positions
in order to find the one that is the most comfortable, especially for the
partner receiving the penis.
Always listen.
In the throes of
ecstasy, men can get a bit rough or focus too much on their engorged penis; a
man must make sure to listen carefully for signs that his partner may need him
to change his position or rate of thrust or that the partner may be in pain and
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Anal sex can be
a thrilling experience for both partners; those on the receiving end often
experience an anal orgasm. However, as with any form of sex, a guy may end up
with a sore penis; the rectum may be too tight or his thrusting may have rubbed
the tool raw. Repairing the damage with a high quality penis health cream (health
professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) can definitely help. Clearly, the
cream must contain an effective combination of moisturizing ingredients, such
as shea butter (an excellent emollient) and vitamin E (one of nature's great
hydrators) to soothe the sore penis. It's also beneficial to find a cream that
contains vitamin A, as this vitamin has valuable anti-bacterial properties that
can help shed the penis of pungent odors.
Visit www.man1health.com for
more information about treating common penis health problems, including
soreness, redness and loss of penis sensation. John Dugan is a professional
writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing
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